We only have nine days until we find out which man Kaitlyn Bristowe chooses on "The Bachelorette" finale! Before the show's Men Tell episode airs on Monday, the 30-year-old dance instructor sat down with “Extra’s” Renee Bargh, who asked if she engaged. "I'm kind of like… I don't know... maybe I am. Maybe I'm not," Kaitlyn said. Kaitlyn played coy with the engagement question, but was rather honest on the amount of hate she has experienced since admitting to having sex with suitor Nick Viall before the fantasy suite date. "I've never had so much hatred my whole life. I'm a strong person, but at the end of the day it still hurts. it's hard, it's really hard."