Bethenny Frankel Talks Secret First Husband and New Baby

"Real Housewives of New York" star Bethenny Frankel dished to "Extra" all about her new baby and secret first marriage to Peter Sussman.

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"I married for security because someone loved me so much, and I didn't love them as much," Bethenny said about her marriage to Sussman. "And I think that when you're older you really appreciate a person and you know exactly what you want."

The new mom and husband, Jason Hoppy, welcomed their first child, Bryn Hoppy, last month. "She is a really nice baby," Frankel told "Extra." "I think because I'm so crazy, she's so calm... She will not be engaging in the catty behavior that her mother has allowed herself to be in."

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The "Housewives" reunion airs tonight on Bravo, but don't expect Bethenny to be making up with frenemy Jill Zarin anytime soon.

"I'm focusing on my family and my career and positive things so I don't want to dig up any skeletons from the graveyard," Frankel said when asked if she and Zarin will bury the hatchet in the future.