"I almost loved this man... I did love this man," she goes on. "I am changing my life and I'm changing his and this and that was the hardest part for me.
"It was kind of saying, you know, I'm not the most important person to him," Grubbs says. "I was hurt and I told my story and I didn't really think of what it was going to do."
When asked if she released the voicemail for revenge, Grubbs tells "Extra," "We're done. I mean, obviously, me telling the story wasn't the way I wanted to end things or say goodbye, but it's my closure."